Comments on: Dear Pammy, Where did I go wrong? http://www.wayofcats.com/blog/where-did-i-go-wrong/6364 understand their nature Wed, 08 Feb 2012 20:52:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: WereBear http://www.wayofcats.com/blog/where-did-i-go-wrong/6364/comment-page-1#comment-4613 WereBear Fri, 22 Jan 2010 23:29:33 +0000 http://www.wayofcats.com/blog/?p=6364#comment-4613 I recommended those articles, and he is already finding it helpful, he says. I also applaud his sharp decision about where to seek help on the web, she said modestly. I recommended those articles, and he is already finding it helpful, he says.

I also applaud his sharp decision about where to seek help on the web, she said modestly.

]]> By: Bill the Splut http://www.wayofcats.com/blog/where-did-i-go-wrong/6364/comment-page-1#comment-4610 Bill the Splut Fri, 22 Jan 2010 00:02:44 +0000 http://www.wayofcats.com/blog/?p=6364#comment-4610 Glad that you're trying, dude. But does the cat have a name? Or a gender? Saying "the cat" or "it" really doesn't make it seem like you're relating to "it" as a living being. And don't force things. After apologizing (as Pammy recommends), just chill out around "the cat." Act calm but friendly, and verbally welcome him or her with a quiet greeting by name and a cat smile (slowly blink your eyes). Patience is the main thing. Cats are by no means fans of change. And you're that change. Give her or him some time, and follow Pammy's advice. Otherwise, you're not just losing serious points in the Cat Department, you're losing even more serious ones in the Girlfriend Department! Glad that you’re trying, dude. But does the cat have a name? Or a gender? Saying “the cat” or “it” really doesn’t make it seem like you’re relating to “it” as a living being.

And don’t force things. After apologizing (as Pammy recommends), just chill out around “the cat.” Act calm but friendly, and verbally welcome him or her with a quiet greeting by name and a cat smile (slowly blink your eyes). Patience is the main thing. Cats are by no means fans of change. And you’re that change. Give her or him some time, and follow Pammy’s advice. Otherwise, you’re not just losing serious points in the Cat Department, you’re losing even more serious ones in the Girlfriend Department!

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