There will be moods

Our cat is not an unvarying machine. Our cat can have moods.

We especially need to pay attention when our cat’s mood shifts into something low or unhappy. While cats work very hard at not showing their moods, they are more likely to show them to those they trust.

In turn, being close to our cat means we can pick up shifts in their well-being. Whether they are subtle, or not.

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People who do not have a close engagement with their cat will not have the ability to gauge their cat’s mood. Ignorant of a cat’s signals, and worse, not looking for them, they are astonished when a petting session turns ugly. When the cat was lashing their tail and emitting siren noises. Note to self: these are signs to leave the cat alone.

Of course, Cat Appreciators do not have this problem. We get to know our cats, and discover how wonderfully expressive a cat’s face can be.

Mr WereBear expresses astonishment at how clearly Mr. Bond’s thoughts are written on his face; and how complex and detailed these thoughts seem to be.

Our still-little Olwyn will beam adoration at us just by meeting our eyes.

Reverend Jim’s lack of facial expressiveness was a huge clue that he had developmental difficulties.

Since RJ’s early months were marked by a lack of feedback, he stopped moving his face as he concentrated on survival. Cats with normal socialization learn to reach each other’s facial expression, and encourage each other’s signals.

We can also encourage our cat to express themselves.

  • When we build our bond of trust, they will feel confident about showing vulnerabilities.
  • When we respond to their signals, they get feedback for their efforts.
  • We should become adept at figuring out what our cat is thinking. Sometimes, it’s obvious. Sometimes, it’s not.

    But it’s always worth knowing.

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    2 Responses to There will be moods

    1. Kidspeak says:

      My students and I did a project teaching kindergarteners how to read cat (and dog) expressions. It was a lot of fun. Most of the kids quickly picked up on the signals – very important to know when they tried to play with a beastie, etc. They surprised us by talking about “easy cats”, which were tabbies or cats with multiple colors on their faces:
      “I can see he doesn’t feel like playing right now, so we just bees in the same room kind of quiet – his eyelines tell me.”
      Eyelines, I loved that!

    2. WereBear says:

      That’s such an adorable story! We are so much more observant as children. It’s a lesson for us adults.
      WereBear´s last [type] ..Time in the Bubble

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