Beta cats see us as the way to get their environment the way they want it. So they are great talkers, or if not, big on the “Lassie Move” where they catch our attention and try to get us to follow them to the object of interest.
They want to please us, so a few corrections is usually all it takes for them to leave things alone, but they have a lot of energy and playfulness, especially as kittens, so it’s best to put Grandma’s hand blown vase somewhere safe until they grow up.
Betas will come when called, sit on your lap when invited, and have been known to fetch. They are the cat type most likely to be praised as, “My cat is like a dog!” But of course, they are cats, and obedience still has the caveat of, “Is there a good reason for me to do this right now?” The Beta’s favorite toys tend to be prey facsimiles, such as fuzzy mice and small stuffed animals, but they are also fond of any toy that scuttles, bounces, or otherwise acts like something worth stalking.
Betas love companionship, whether it be respectful dogs or properly coached children. They are the most likely cat to meet strangers, especially if the guests are sensible enough to admire them. If our business needs a “greeter cat,” look for a Beta. This outgoing quality makes them especially easy to care for, because if the food dish is getting low or the litter box isn’t being kept up, we will know about it right away. Always be swift to correct problems, and Betas will shower us with love and attention in return.
Encourage our Beta’s communication skills by talking to them often, with a lot of dramatic body language. This will appeal to the ham in them, and even if they don’t understand the words, they will pick up so much of our body language that their comprehension will be the next best thing. So always make a point of telling our Beta if we will be gone overnight, that the store was out of their favorite flavor, or that the cat pillow needs to be washed, but it will be right back. In multiple cat households, Betas will be our translator, able to convey requests and news to the other cats.
Betas are known as “Supervisors.” They love watching us do things. They especially love watching us do things which concerns them, such as litter cleaning, planting kitty grass, or putting the windowsill shelf on the correct window. Betas are the best cat for newbies, because Betas love the chance to train us properly, and are forgiving when we mess up.
Some breeds known for their Beta qualities are the Tonkinese, Manx, Scottish Fold, Maine Coon, and Norwegian Forest Cat. The last two breeds are long haired, but “natural,” so need less grooming than other long haired breeds. Which is so Beta of them. Betas tend to have muscular, rectangular bodies and a calm, inquisitive expression.
Any cat can be a Beta. In kittens, look for the thoughtful ones who pause a millisecond before they attack a new toy. They make eye contact easily, and are usually the first in a litter to show interest in people. In the shelter, they are often the ones who rub their faces on the cages or make polite noises to draw your attention. Ask the shelter folk for a friendly, playful cat, and soon you will have your own “Dr. Watson.”
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I love my beta cats. They train me so well haha!
i would love to have one…but cant really afford it…
This is a lovely description of betas. I do think my Norwegian Forest Cat is a beta indeed!
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Sounds like Hermes. Sadly, he died last weekend, almost 2 years old, but he was likely the most outgoing cat I’ve had – he quite simply loved everyone. And he was a very easy-going cat, I seldom saw him scared, angry or sad. Lots of energy, too, though part of that could be my perception being skewed by older cats.
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Thanks alot for the description! My cat is definitely a beta.
I’m currently considering adopting a new cat to the household. My cat is 1 yr old male/neutered and I’m wonder what would be a good match for him so they would get along?
- kitten vs. older cat
- male vs. female
- alpha/beta/gamma
Does anyone have a good idea?
Hi im curious what other breeds do you consider a beta. Im interested in the bengal/ abyssisian/tiger(toyger) and the manx. any suggestions can any of these be a beta personality. im also a 1st time cat owner with a calm/gentle 6 year old and a husband who instist it be a young kitten that we adopt/purchase.
any suggestions or advice about this or in general would be helpful.
Thanks in advance
Melissa
Manx is definitely a Beta, while any cat with Abyssinian in them will be strongly on the Alpha side. American or British shorthairs are the archetypal Beta cat; mellow, take everything in stride, highly affectionate but not demanding. Their only drawback might be that they are not that tactile; a cat like a Ragdoll, who loves cuddling, might be just right for a gentle six year old who wants to cuddle just as much as they do.
For more about Betas, see all my posts about the Beta cat type.
I have a 12 year old male/neuter Burmese. He was rescued from a shelter when he was 3 years old. While he is a very typical Burmese in a lot of ways, he can also be very agressive in play, and sometimes just attacking for no reason. He loves select people, but is not overly friendly to all people (he snobs them). He loves cuddles with her particular favourites, talks all the time and sleeps on our pillows and generally runs the household. Loves to chase toys but is equally happy sitting on his own in a box watching the world go by. Would you classify him as a Beta? We are getting a kitten and I am trying to match personalities.
Many thanks
Stacey
Burmese are typically Beta, and it sure sounds like he is one!