It doesn’t matter how our cat became paranoid; they have a tendency to be born that way. What matters is what we can do about it. Lack of support is the real pivot between a cat getting on with their life… or not. Obviously, an upsetting incident where the cat winds up on the street [...]
Posts under ‘affection moves’
Dear Pammy, My cat shows no emotion.
A reader writes: No matter what I do, my cat just stares at me. Why does my cat show no emotion? Dear Reader, The less a cat trusts their environment, the less they will give away. Facial expression, body language, their next action; all will become hidden when a cat feels threatened. see more Lolcats [...]
Time in the Bubble
The popular term, “in the bubble,” is used in a derogatory manner, regarding someone who is rejecting the influence of reality in their thoughts and actions. Make no mistake; this is a bad thing. Yet this same principle can be a valuable and positive one when applied to our relationships, especially if we have many [...]
All Cats Play Poker
What is my favorite, favorite, cat game? Cat Poker. The game where everyone wins! see more Lolcats and funny pictures It doesn’t matter who starts the game. It’s simply that someone has to. One makes an affectionate move. The other returns it. But this keeps the game at the same level. To play Cat Poker, [...]
Cats consider our tender feelings
James Bond is more friendly with other people when I’m not around. This has all been Mr. Bond’s idea. I’ve always encouraged him to love Dear Husband, by sending positive verbal and physical messages when Mr. Bond acts affectionately towards Dear Husband. I praise him when he says hello to guests. But Mr. Bond won’t [...]








